Louder Than the Voices

 Good morning! Happy Saturday! I hope you are all doing well. I had oral surgery this week, having bone grafting done between 4 of my teeth, so it has been a week of ups and down. Happily, yesterday, I felt great just in time for our Homecoming.  So, Andrew and I enjoyed our town, the parade and the game last night. What a great day to be an Eagle, and make me really thankful I am back home. We live 2 blocks from the high school; where I attended and Robert attended, so we were able to walk to the game last night. We would have walked to the parade but I knew I wanted to look for some things at Rauch's jewelry and gift shop and didn't want to have to carry it home on foot, and of course, I found what I was looking for. :-). Anyway, I have decided to do another 4 part series. This time, looking at what the Bible says about certain areas of our lives. We are going to talk about Nutrition, Fitness, Finances and our Faith. So, let's get started! 3 Things the Bible Says About Nu...

  James 4:17 “Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin.” Last week in Bible study, we were studying Titus 1, and our discussion turned to sin. We talked about the fact that no matter how hard we try to live good Christian lives, we are still going to sin. Sometimes we may even sin without immediately realizing that we have done it. I think sometimes the world looks at Christians and assumes that we think we are perfect—or that because we call ourselves Christians, we are somehow claiming to be better than everyone else. But most Christians I know have never claimed that. In fact, Christianity begins with admitting the exact opposite: we need a Savior because we aren't perfect and never will be on this side of Heaven. I might even call myself a Christian perfectionist. I want to get it right. I want to do my best. I want my life to reflect what I believe, and when I realize I've gotten something wrong, I want to correct it. But being a Christi...

Good morning! Happy Saturday! This morning I want to share something a little different. This isn't something I have figured out and now want to teach you. This is something God is working on in me right now. In fact, it is something He has been showing me more and more lately, and this morning I felt like maybe I wasn't supposed to keep it to myself. Since my mom died, I have done a lot of second-guessing myself. I lost my mom, which is a loss I don't think I will ever be able to adequately put into words, but I also lost one of my greatest sounding boards. Mom was someone I could take my thoughts, ideas, problems, frustrations, and decisions to. She knew me well enough to know when I needed encouragement, but she also knew me well enough to tell me when I needed to get over something! More importantly, she had wisdom—and a lot of that wisdom was rooted in her faith. Without her here, I have felt a little lost at times. But recently, God has been showing me something about...

 Good morning! Happy Saturday from right in the middle of the craziness for me. I just got home from a few days in St. Louis for a work conference, and Andrew and I are leaving Monday afternoon to go back to St. Louis to catch a plane to San Antonio Tuesday morning for a board meeting and conference planning. I love San Antonio, so when things worked out that we could stay a couple of extra days, I was game. I will get back, though, and have four days left before I have my major staff training of the year. There is a lot going on with LIHEAP right now too, so that is a lot to plan for. Then, to keep life interesting, four days after the staff training, I will have oral surgery and have a bone graft on my front lower teeth. September is going to be something. So, I am trying to fit making a quick trip to Hob Nob, Laundry, repacking, and spending time at the office getting ready for my training all into today.  And maybe that makes this the perfect week to talk about the last pa...

 Happy Friday- I am a day early! I'm posting a little early this week because I'm heading to my sister's for Lincoln's Balloon Festival, and tomorrow morning I plan to be up early watching the balloons instead of sitting at my computer writing a post! And maybe choosing to make room for something I enjoy fits pretty well with what we're talking about this week anyway. We are back for Part 3 of Self-Care Isn't Selfish , and I have to admit, this one may be harder for me than caring for my body. In Part 1, we talked about learning to rest before we run completely empty. In Part 2, we talked about caring for our bodies and actually listening when they tell us they've had enough. This week, we're talking about our minds—and apparently life decided I needed some real-life material for this one too! Earlier this week, I went to the periodontist. I've had periodontal disease for years, and I had a troublesome spot on my gum that just wasn't clearing up....

 I’ve been dealing with periodontal care for many years, so taking care of my teeth and gums at home has become a pretty important part of my daily routine. I’ve tried a lot of different products over the years, but there are a handful that I continue to use because they work well for my routine . I thought I’d put them all in one place in case you’re looking for ideas for your own dental-care routine. Affiliate Disclosure: This post contains Amazon affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. If you purchase through one of my links, I may earn a small commission at no additional cost to you. Of course, I’m not a dentist or periodontist. These are simply products I personally use. If you have periodontal disease or other dental concerns, talk with your dental professional about what is appropriate for you. 1. Philips Sonicare Electric Toothbrush My Sonicare is the foundation of my daily routine. I prefer an electric toothbrush because it makes it easier...

 Good morning! I'm back! I missed you last Saturday, but as it turns out, life gave me a pretty good lesson in the very series I had just started. I was on our girls' trip, trying to enjoy a few days at the beach while also dealing with a splitting headache and what was believed to be shingles. I had plans for that trip. I wanted to be out enjoying the beach, doing all the things we had planned and making the most of our time away. But my body had some other ideas. There were times I had to go back to the room, get out of the heat, rest and accept that I simply wasn't going to do everything I wanted to do. And apparently, I didn't completely learn the lesson, because I came home and jumped right back in! In Part 1 of Self-Care Isn't Selfish , we talked about how easy it is to keep putting ourselves at the bottom of the list, promising we'll rest or take care of ourselves after everything else is done. And we decided there is just one problem with that: everythi...

 Learning to Rest Before We Run Empty Happy Saturday! It has been a big, scary week for me! I started a new adventure, pitched an idea to our tourism council that means a new project and hosted a meeting yesterday that one of funders experience. I am really, really glad for a change of pace this weekend and I am taking full advantage. IT led me to this next topic and another series so we can break it down. Today we’re starting a new four-part series called Self-Care Isn’t Selfish . Over the next four weeks, we’re going to look at what self-care really means and why it matters, then dig a little deeper into caring for the three parts of ourselves that God has entrusted to us—our bodies, our minds, and our spirits . For a long time, I think I misunderstood self-care. I thought taking care of myself was something I could get to after everything else was done—after the work was finished, after everyone else was taken care of, after the house was handled, the responsibilities were met,...

 Good morning! As we've walked through this series together, I hope one thing has become clear. The goal of a Money Diet isn't simply to get out of debt. It isn't just to have a healthy savings account. It isn't about becoming wealthy. The goal is freedom. Freedom from worrying every time another bill comes in the mail. Freedom from wondering how you're going to make it until payday. Freedom to enjoy the blessings God has given you without guilt or regret. But there is another kind of freedom that I believe is even more important. The freedom to be generous. God actually began teaching me this lesson years ago while I was sitting at a Women of Faith conference listening to Luci Swindoll. She shared how she had struggled with worrying about money and wrestled with God over tithing. She couldn't understand how He expected her to give when there never seemed to be enough. But as she trusted Him, she discovered something that completely changed her perspective. She...

 Good morning everyone! Happy Saturday! I am excited about today because I get to go see my cousin Anissa. We had lunch a few weeks ago and I am thrilled for the reason we are getting together today.  While we were visiting, she had mentioned that one of the regrets she had was saying no when her mom asked her if she wanted her grandmother's rain lamp. You remember the rain lamps? It was normally a bronze hanging lamp that had a statue in the middle and what looked like rain running down little lines around it? Well, she made that statement and then said, I don't know what happened to it. I was able to say immediately, "it is sitting in my attic, and it is yours if you want it." She said no, but on our way home, she texted me and said if I meant it she wanted it. It does need a new motor, and that and the fact that I just didn't have a good place for it anymore had sent it to my attic. I am so excited that it is going to be used again and I am so excited that I wa...

Happy Saturday! Hope you are all having a wonderful start to your weekend. This week, we continue our Money Diet series. I called this one counting the cost and I have been doing a lot of this recently. There are a lot of things going on in our lives money-wise. Things are popping up with Mom's estate that we weren't expecting, Before Mom died, we had planned on doing some upgrades to our house, which has taken weird turns several times now and I am trying to save for a vacation next year that will be a stress free as the one this year was. So, onward... We got home from Branson on a Saturday evening. We had already discussed that we wanted to do this again next summer so, I wanted to figure out a budget that would pay for another nice trip. We had an advantage because this time we have a year to save and last time, we only had about 6 months. Our vacation wasn't free, We saved for it, Robert contributed his share, just like we had planned months earlier. We did spend a lit...

 Good morning! A few weeks ago, we did something that was pretty special for our family. For the first time since Robert became an adult, we took a family vacation together. When he accepted his new job, he told me, "In six months, I get a week of vacation, and I want us to go to Branson." My response wasn't, "We'll figure it out when the time comes." It was, "Then we need to start saving now." Because he was making a good income, I told him that if we were all going to enjoy the trip, he needed to contribute one-third of the cost. So together we sat down and created a budget and a savings plan. It fit right alongside my own budget and savings goals. By the time vacation arrived, we knew exactly how much money we had available. We enjoyed ourselves, saw the shows we wanted to see, ate good food, and made wonderful memories. Did we go a little over budget? Yes. But here's the difference--we weren't putting those memories on credit cards that...